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Cake day: September 17th, 2023
  • Anonymous_TorPerson@lemmy.mlOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•How to get rid of the Indian curse?
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    3 months ago

    Saying that, also understand that STEM-related expertise areas are much more sought after. So it might not be a bad idea to focus on that side and/or diversify.

    I tried this, failed once, trying again! :)

    You’re young, you have plenty of time. So don’t feel burdened not finding a spark at this era in your life. My Mom immigrated here only after marriage, when she was 28

    Thank you very much! I will turn 23 soon, I will try my best to get out and make something of myself and even if I can’t get out, I will try and live meaningfully here (PS: I posted here, because I thought that was very fucking difficult)

    Also, thank you very much! I wish you well as you do to me! :)

  • Anonymous_TorPerson@lemmy.mlOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•How to get rid of the Indian curse?
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    3 months ago

    That’s the biggest problem and why they left. You’re clearly a part of that.

    Sorry, I am not racist. I know all this way too well. i.e., The corrupt bureaucrat and the politician who created this system knew all too well what he was doing and he had good personal motivations for it. I myself have put myself in their shoes and their world, and have tried to see what’s working in their mind. I won’t say I am racist, if I am racist I am towards the culture which created this shitshow. But you have good reasons to think that given my post. I am not blaming any ethnically or linguistically different group for where we are, I am blaming the culture. Babies are not born creepy, the culture makes them what they become. The creepy guys I talk about, I am pretty sure they won’t have been creepy in a better culture.

    not your fault, but you shouldn’t participate in that bullshit by saying such things and having such a defeated mindset.

    Trust me, I once had hope, but this system beats it out of you! This system has failed me multiple times in dire ways. That being said, you are 100% correct, defeatism and resentment, nothing good comes out of them. I am no longer resentful as much as I used to be, I will try to keep that defeatism at bay!

    But as a white guy with 13 friends from Nepal, India, and Bangladesh, I’d like to think my advice isn’t entirely disregardable, as it’s indirectly from them.

    Trust me, I read it very intently. I will try to follow what you have suggested, I have a few friends abroad (White Native borns), they know and understand me, they will help me get out! :)

    , if you talk about India and Indians the way you did In your post, you’ll fit right in with them lol

    I don’t blame them tbch, but yeah, I plan on mixing with the non-racist bunch and spending my spare hours in the library if I ever get there! Kudos!

    I appreciate the effort and the intention behind your reply, thank you very much for trying to help me!

  • Anonymous_TorPerson@lemmy.mlOPtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•How to get rid of the Indian curse?
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    3 months ago
    1. It is the only option, but I am not sure how, as in, I don’t have great grades and there are millions of Indians waiting to immigrate! It’s a shitshow tbh, a friend went to London for a business degree, still unemployed and stuck in debt! The desperation to get out among people is extremely depressing.

    edit: How can one try to get out? Get good really good in their field?

    Also, when Indians try to find happiness in mediocrity, we use a phrase, “India is a not for beginners”, Schooby-Doo-typa curse is easy, this shit has expert level difficulty.