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  • Ilflish@lemm.eetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldIt's true.
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    7 months ago

    The confusing part of this is that they think this is a teen issue, like they see adults loitering everywhere. There’s logic behind why you don’t see them doing it because they have their own homes to hang out at but if four adults were hanging out by the door of a shop they wouldn’t get special treatment.

    In most places adults gather outside of their homes you also need to pay for outside of parks






  • Ilflish@lemm.eetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldTrue
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    8 months ago

    I do this enough that I’m convinced my friends gaslight me. It would be easier to just say that I’ll watch something later. Instead I’ll tell someone I know of it and why I haven’t watched it yet. Easy for them to interpret I’m not interested and then later they’ll tell me I’m not interested in it and I’ll be very confused and then multiple people will agree.

    The problem is that they probably never gaslight me, and that fear stems from a situation where I so vividly internalise a situation that leads to the conclusion they don’t gaslight me that I forget the end result. The example being I have no idea which pronunciation of yoghurt is American and Which is British, because I used to be made fun of for saying it wrong. I only remember I was made fun of, I don’t remember what I used to say or what the right way is.

    Edit: The fact I bring up yoghurt tells you everything