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  • I’m a woman in the U.S. and I’ve never had a friend ditch a guy for using a different phone than them.

    This is either fake, limited to the younger generation, infrequent enough that I’ve never encountered it, or regional

    I know men who have a hard time getting dates, but phone choice has never been brought up as to why they’re rejected

    (Frankly, if someone rejects anyone for what phone they are using, the rejecting-party’s clearly not worth pursuing)



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    9 months ago

    I don’t have children yet, and it might come to pass that I have none, but I have worked with them. I’m an observer type of person. I like to analyze things. I also come from a household where my own voice wasn’t heard. I didn’t learn how to manage my emotions, and as a consequence I’m having to continue to do so well into adulthood.

    Kids emotions are raw, intense, and untamed. Yes, they should be listened to, yes their needs should be met- but they also need to understand that the world doesn’t revolve around them and that sometimes they need to wait.

    They need to know that they are loved. They need to know that they are important. But again, they need to know that other people are important too. They need to understand that other people’s feelings matter, too. They need to be able to identify when someone else is busy on the phone and come back later to show that cool new drawing they made.

    If the parent drops what they are doing each and every time, allows the child to interupt constantly, and leads them to believe that they are the most important person in the room at all times, then what lesson will they take with them into adulthood?

    You know those people that start yelling when their starbucks drink is not to their liking? That’s one way that those people are made



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    9 months ago

    Sure, but only when they are too little to know better, or to do something themselves. If they are babied into childhood they may turn into adults who still believe the world revolves around them. I have a couple x’s like that. Into their late 30’s and still can’t function without someone else helping them

    Lessons need to be learned at the appropriate ages