I have always lurked Reddit, I have never made an account. With Lemmy, I contribute instead of lurk as I feel I have a part to play in it’s early growth for it to succeed. But that being said, I occasionally check the front page and a few specific subreddits but not quite as frequently since I joined Lemmy.
Oh, and when I do, I use LibReddit to view reddit, so nothing even official.
Grilled cheese - American cheese is the only way i enjoy a grilled cheese. Also, Black Forest ham and cheddar sandwich with lettuce tomato and mayo on a baguette or other real tasting bread.