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minus-squareCrackhappy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up33·5 months agoWait … that’s not normal?
minus-squareThe Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up38·5 months agoAn unfortunate number of people view debates as “winning” vs “losing” and tie their ego to it.
minus-squareCrackhappy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·5 months agoI love debating, and especially love it when I get the chance to be wrong and learn from my mistakes. Man, I really am a weirdo.
minus-squareRIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·5 months agoI strongly think it’s because people can grow up trained to tie their identity to their beliefs and values. Self reflection becomes a direct attack on their identity.
Wait … that’s not normal?
An unfortunate number of people view debates as “winning” vs “losing” and tie their ego to it.
I love debating, and especially love it when I get the chance to be wrong and learn from my mistakes. Man, I really am a weirdo.
I strongly think it’s because people can grow up trained to tie their identity to their beliefs and values. Self reflection becomes a direct attack on their identity.