• petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        8 months ago

        Okay, I feel like this needs to be addressed as well: this, like, public self-flagellation is not useful either. I have never once been ashamed of being a man.

        The problem that men have here is cultural and systemic, it’s expressed with statistics and social norms—it really, really has nothing to do with you or me specifically.

        If you’ve already done the work of recognizing that negging women is extremely rude, then you’ve already improved as a person. There’s no reason to be self-loathing about it.

    • whereIsTamara@lemmy.orgBanned from community
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      8 months ago

      You’d be surprised how many of these guys didn’t vote for Trump. Incels and woman haters exist across the spectrum. What we need is for social media to actually ban this content. But it makes them money.

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      8 months ago

      if it’s any consolation, does make the bar for picking up woman incredibly low, makes it easier for the rest of us i think. just don’t be a complete creep and your at top of the curve

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      8 months ago

      This is honestly better than what I’ve encountered. At least they are trying to attract a woman.

      There are types who can both hate a woman’s personality and envy those she likes and hate her for not liking them, all at the same time.

      But yes, being male, I’ve been recently inspired by reading about medical advancements in procreation without boys. This will be necessary to counter the population growth on the side of various shmucks and their abused wives.

      (I’ve recently learned I have no right to call myself a shmuck since 13 years ago.)